am I asking for too much?

This question has been on my mind for a while now and I'm wondering if I am asking for too much. I just want to be treated like idk what its called but I just want to have more on hands things done and more romantic like when I'm angry bring me flowers when I sad bring me candies. Like I just want certain things and I feel like its romantic and it seems nobody thinks this but me and I feel like ugh!!! Why are all the sweet things I want done to me seem to be far from ne one's mind. like I don't if I'm asking for too much or I'm not deserving of it, its like ne thing romantic that gets done to me is probably sexually related or money related nothing spontaneous now I'm to the point that I don't kno if I am asking for too much or what like it upsets me that everything I want I have to ask for I never get ne surprises if I want it I gotta ask for it! It kills me that I have to do that. like is it me? i don't even kno anymore but I just needed to rant and get it off my chest.