I can't read that and not want to respond. Because it was so much about insecurity about your body. And I just want to scream that there is no such thing as a perfect body! It's all an illusion - its a multimillion $$$ industry. They (the commercials and companies) are doing whatever it takes to make us believe we'll look better if we cut and snip this or that, buy this product, etc. But what you have to realize is that every body type is beautiful and you just have to own it. I can totally relate to everything your writing about 100% because I have always feel inadequately endowed. I always struggled with my body type. I would have killed for some curves. I felt like I was flat everywhere and I was just some toothpick.
One thing you have to do Mia is look at others with your body type for inspiration. I used to look up to like Chessika, Lil Kim body types which failed because it made me feel inadequate. I changed that by googling skinny celebrities and reading how much their fans loved them. I discovered that even Keri Hilson with her flat chested self is considered super sexy. Thats why when we brought up the rihanna thing I was gushing about how hot she was. Its because shes one of my role models, I like her smaller sized boobs because they make me feel good about myself. I praised her because i felt like i was built like her. Of course hers arent perfect, if anything big double D's are perfect but instead of wasting my time looking up to something I don't have I need to see the good qualities in what I do have. I have freaking adolescent breasts for crying out loud. But i dont care because I'm into that now lol.
You can be beautiful and stick straight, you can be beautiful and voluptuous, you can even be beautiful and 600 lbs!! I bet that fat ass cow we posted on Skype with the caption "jelly in the trunk" is married and has kids and money and is beautiful to the people in her life that are close to her. Thats because beauty is like 10% looks and 90% confidence. Its really a state of mind. Its a shame because I look at you and see how your funny and original and fun to be around. You being a vibrant person just highlights all your good physical traits like your pretty face and big expressive almond shaped eyes and a guy would notice you have big boobs and a big butt and sexy hips. Like one thing I noticed is I don't look at people's imperfections unless they point them out. You have to stop whining about your "stretch marks" and whatnot because no one sees them except for during the moment your complaining about them.
Think about it this way. Your a guy. There's this hot girl at your school. She's skinny, has barely there curves - probably an A cup. She likes wearing funny t shirts and listens to music in class. She wears mascara and black eyeliner as far as makeup, and has a cute little face with the cutest pair of lips you ever saw, and if you look close enough you can see a tiny stud in her nose. She seems like a free spirit and a little crazy but in a good way.
You go to your next class and a new student sits next to you. She's sexy, has at least DD's and a pair of hips to match. Flip flops and tank tops seem to be her favorite things to wear. She's always smiling when you see her. She rarely wears makeup and has this fresh and clean look about her. She has the biggest most expressive brown eyes that could seduce you from across the room. Her baby face comes off as angelic but you know its more behind that.
See how both the old student and the new student are totally hot but they are different. And thats not me and you or anything just two hypothetical hot girls ;)
Anyway my point is I can relate, and i want you to know your body type is perfect. you just need to always give off that sexy air and everyone will follow cause you really are gorgeous and I want you to let it radiate.
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